Thank goodness for friends

Never turn your back on a friend in need. The past few years in life have taught me that we all were given certain amounts of coping skills. It's sad that some need that little extra 'boost' that maybe they can only get from you on a particular day. I have always considered myself to be strong. If I am handed more than I think I can handle, I have such great friendships and their wisdom sees me through. I've been to hell and back but I do know, though, that for the most part I've been able to work through it. However, I know several of my friends are truly unable to jump certain hurdles without taking it to a further medical level. They are frustrated that they must rely on therapists, or medication to see them through the tough times. And it's up to those of us who have gotten through bad times by ourselves, to let them know.."Hey..it's OK if you need help... If you need to see someone, PLEASE go do that. If you need medical help to help resolve things, it's OK. You don't have to do it all alone." I make sure to remind them that I completely understand and am in full support of the need to seek help beyond themselves. I've been told by those friends that it's nice to know that they aren't seen as "weak" by someone who seems to be strong. Well, the truth is, we all can be pretty weak. We all handle our problems differently. What's important is that you be happy and at peace.