I see Blog people

This has been the title of my original blog since 2004. When I googled that title the other day I find that someone at another commercial site is SELLING sweatshirts, etc. with my title on the shirt? I wonder if I legally can complain about that?

FYI

I haven't been using Blogger for very long, but since AOL is dropping their Journal/blog options, the only way to save my very old blogs was to import them to Blogger. That explains the very old dates and information. I am not even posting all the stuff I wrote back then because some of it was pretty repetitive and trite. I am slowly posting old blogs I want to hang onto. But I want to add new blogs in here too , so right now it's kind of mixed up and disjointed.

The curse of the J*******r's

I admit, I am a bit prejudiced against the name Jennifer. I am sure there are a lot of nice Jennifers out there. I've even known a couple. It doesn't stop me from kind of wincing when someone says that's their name. If I'd have given birth to a girl and Jennifer was my only name choice, she'd have to be nameless maybe. I suppose it starts in high school as many pivotal bad memories always do. All I wanted was for boys to notice me. The girl getting a lot of notice was hip wiggling, come hither Jennifer. I can honestly say I was a lot more attractive than her. But she had that "vibe" that was the pied piper pull to many of the hormonally charged male population of my high school. I guess it didn't help that my parents were anti dating fanatics, limiting my options a bit. Then I later find out that the woman responsible for f-----g up my husbands head the most before he met me was named Jennifer. Before I met George, I was insanely in love with a man who eventually f-----d my head up forever after. It was a bitter pill to swallow, learning that the woman who was worthy of his eventual love was- who else, Jennifer, NOT me. I guess it's good that George and I met and repaired some of the damage for each other. Scattered through the intervening years there have been a few Jennifers whom haven't caused my teeth to grind. Jennifer J was a nice person. Jennifer D was a misunderstood, slightly unhinged, but deep down good person with a lot of hardships to overcome. When my best friend tells me her life is being ruined at work by someone named Jennifer, I think..."but, of course!!"

Summer at full swing

It's the time of year for the Ann Arbor Art Fairs. You know it's coming because suddenly it's really HOT in Michigan. We can't have a cool, comfortable, relaxing Art Fair week. You just are doomed to bake. We have decided to spend some time off and on this summer at my husband's family lake house. His grandparents who came here from Switzerland, purchased this little lake cottage in the '50's in Brooklyn Michigan. George's father was just a young kid. He grew up spending summers there, and subsequetly George and his siblings spent their summer weekends there as well. George's mom had put a lot of work into a few parts of the house, and unfortunately since their divorce, it has just been sitting there unused for nearly 3 years now. It's got a second floor that was added on to in the late 70's so it's a bit of a time warp/flashback needing much updating. His dad has too much sentimental attachment to it to just sell it, and someday George and his sisters will have to decide what to do with it. George and I are taking up the "torch". We hope his father will allow us to spend time there on summer weekends, and maybe eventually do some more work fixing up the place. We started the week of July 4th, and just getting it cleaned up from the mess left by the winter mice, etc., was tough work. They had a regular Mickey Mouse club going on over there. I have also had to face my fear of spiders. They LOVE it there. But, in the end it's been a great break for us. We don't have much time or space to ourselves as long as we live with his mom. That will have to change someday, and I hope to God we can swing it sooner than later. I don't mind living here, but it does get to me. I want my own kitchen. I love to cook and so does George. My mother in law is awesome, and lets us do what we want, but it's still not always that easy. The cottage is 45 minutes away so we can't be there all the time. It's not winterized so we can only enjoy it til it gets too cold. It's great for another generation to get a chance to have a nice carefree childhood jumping off the dock and swimming as kids should do. I don't want Nate to grow up with a game controller attached to his bone structure somewhere.

so lax of me

I am not blogging much these days. I barely email my tried and true email pen pals. This too shall pass. What I wish wouldn't pass, are the days of Nate's babyhood. They fly by too quickly. I just want to hold him tight and absorb him, and slow things down. I want all the little moments to last and last. I think if I could change anything it would have been having him so late in my life. That was unavoidable. I was never in a place in my life to have a baby when I was younger. I think people who space their babies 4 years apart have a good plan. They get to enjoy the littlest one after the previous child is old enough to enjoy their sibling as well. Each child gets much more specialized individual attention. It seems the second child and onward sometimes get lost in the shuffle a bit more than the first baby when they are close in age. But I can't wait 3 more years to try again. I don't even know if I can try again at all. Each stage of his life is wonderful, and I love it all so much, but unlike others who just roll with the changes, ever looking forward to the next, I feel this deep sadness underneath the smile he brings to my face, because I instantly think of how fleeting these "firsts" are. He's amazing.

Thoughts of Spring

Tomorrow is the first Saturday in April. It happens to also be April Fools day. An appropriate day for the traditional "Hash Bash" that happens in Ann Arbor every year. A great day to drag out the camera and capture the people that crawl out from under the porches or wherever they normally hang out and hide while smoking weed. Usually this date is a cold one so it's kind of miserable for the participants. The cops are usually running around looking for law breakers and it's just great fun for all. I say that sarcastically but it is a bit amusing.

Today was Nate's 6 month baby check up and he's doing great. He weighs 23.5 lbs. He's therefore still 99th percentile on the chub factor. He's also kind of long so he's in the 92nd percentile there. In other words, he looks like he's about 9 months old. I hope when he crawls he burns a little of it off. As it is, it's hard to keep him in clothing that fits.